When I have trouble doing something others find easy, I conclude the problem lies with me– they have skills and/or abilities I don’t.
Makes sense, right?
When other people struggle with something that’s easy for me, I immediately conclude they’re skilled and I must be doing the thing wrong.
WHY BRAIN? WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS? WHY?
Maybe it’s social conditioning. That’s usually the answer to things that annoy me like this.